Even when you find a person to spend the rest of your life with, it can be difficult to initiate sex with them. If you’re too blunt, then they might take offense. If you’re too subtle, then they might not notice what you’re trying to do. That’s why you should used these different ways to initiate sex the next time you’re in the mood

Give Compliments

The best way to get someone in the mood for sex is to make them feel sexy. Tell your partner how beautiful they look or how much you love their new outfit. As long as the compliment is genuine, it’ll make them warm up to you. Once they’re in a great mood, then you can move on to kissing and stripping each other.

Touch Their Thighs

The thighs are a super sensitive body part. If you want to initiate sex with your partner, all you have to do is rub the area, and if they respond well, then you can move on to rubbing another special area. They’ll get the hint right away, and they’ll be happy that you’re focusing on their pleasure first

Wear Something Sexy

Ladies should slip into lingerie and men should put on their tightest pants. When your partner sees that you’re looking intentionally attractive, they’ll be able to guess what you want them to do. It won’t be long until that sexy outfit you put together comes off

Send Dirty Texts

If you’re shy, you can use technology to initiate intercourse. All you have to do is send your partner a text about how hot they are or how horny you are. You could even send them a simple snapshot of your naked body. It should do the trick

Give French Kisses

One spectacular kiss can lead straight to sex. Instead of giving your partner their usual pecks, pull them close and give them a sensual French kiss. The more passionate, the better, so make sure that you show as much emotion as you can

Set The Scene

You don’t always have to come right out and say that you want to have sex. Instead, you can decorate your bed with roses and place candles all around the room. When your partner sees all of your hard work, they’ll know exactly what’s on your mind. Plus, they’ll be touched by your sentimental side, so you should both end up happy

Be Blunt

When all else fails, you might as well be completely honest with your partner. Turn to them, tell them you’re in the mood for sex, and ask if they want to get it on. You’ll either get a yes or a no, so you’ll know right away whether you’re going to get lucky or if you should settle for masturbating.



In your opinion, what’s the best way to initiate sex?

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Holly Riordan
Holly Riordan
Holly is an aspiring sci-fi writer who currently writes lifestyle articles for All Women Stalk and News Cult. She's a fan of comedy movies, ridiculous puns, and is the owner of a pup named Ferris (last name Bueller).